I'm a developer on the Xbox Live SDK team.
We recently announced the Xbox Live Creators Program which allows all developers to use Xbox Live via no concept approval required! More info can be found here: http://www.xbox.com/en-US/developers/creators-program
We also put the source of the Xbox Live SDK on GitHub. The various projects can be found at: https://github.com/Microsoft/xbox-live-api
https://github.com/Microsoft/xbox-live-samples
https://github.com/Microsoft/xbox-live-unity-plugin
https://github.com/Microsoft/xbox-live-trace-analyzer
https://github.com/Microsoft/xbox-live-resiliency-fiddler-plugin