Life long geek and amateur game designer.
I have a tendency to try and do everything by myself and not ask for help, perhaps because of my social paranoia (as I call it). So if I am asking for help please know it took not a small amount of courage on my part.
I don't need the solution to my problems offered up on a silver platter, just pointing me in the right direction is often times enough and very much appreciated.
I can't stand gatekeepers in any medium. If someone is here asking for help belittling them doesn't help anyone. If you aren't helping please just move on.