The service binder is not provided with Virgo, but (as Holly suggests) there are some OSGi standard alternatives that satisfy the kinds of requirements you have. Two standards involve declaring services and service references in metadata in your bundles: Blueprint and Declarative Services. These are described in the OSGi specifications and various published books on OSGi.
OSGi Blueprint is implemented by the Gemini Blueprint component which is being included in Virgo 3.5.0 due to ship mid 2012. Earlier versions of Virgo included Spring DM 1.2.1 which is the technology which gave rise to the Blueprint standard. So on earlier versions, you can either use Spring DM directly -- its features are roughly a superset of those provided by Blueprint with slightly different, Spring-like syntax -- or you can add Gemini Blueprint to Virgo yourself (a web search should turn up the technique).
OSGi Declarative Services is (are?) another alternative and this was included in Virgo 3.0. Indeed service binder was the inspiration for Declarative Services.