Well this solution works for id3v2 (the current standard). ID3V1 doesn't have the metadata at the beginning of the file, so it wouldn't work in those cases.
This reads the first 4096 bytes of the file, which is arbitrary. As far as I could tell from the ID3 documentation, there is no limit to the size, but 4kb was when I stopped getting parsing errors in my library.
I was able to build a simple dropbox audio player, which can be seen here:
soundstash.heroku.com
and open-sourced the code here: github.com/miketucker/Dropbox-Audio-Player
require 'open-uri'
require 'stringio'
require 'net/http'
require 'uri'
require 'mp3info'
url = URI.parse('http://example.com/filename.mp3') # turn the string into a URI
http = Net::HTTP.new(url.host, url.port)
req = Net::HTTP::Get.new(url.path) # init a request with the url
req.range = (0..4096) # limit the load to only 4096 bytes
res = http.request(req) # load the mp3 file
child = {} # prepare an empty array to store the metadata we grab
Mp3Info.open( StringIO.open(res.body) ) do |m| #do the parsing
child['title'] = m.tag.title
child['album'] = m.tag.album
child['artist'] = m.tag.artist
child['length'] = m.length
end