Not 100% what you were looking for, but kind of an inside-out way of doing it:
SQL> CREATE TABLE mytable (id NUMBER, status VARCHAR2(50));
Table created.
SQL> INSERT INTO mytable VALUES (1,'Finished except pouring water on witch');
1 row created.
SQL> INSERT INTO mytable VALUES (2,'Finished except clicking ruby-slipper heels');
1 row created.
SQL> INSERT INTO mytable VALUES (3,'You shall (not?) pass');
1 row created.
SQL> INSERT INTO mytable VALUES (4,'Done');
1 row created.
SQL> INSERT INTO mytable VALUES (5,'Done with it.');
1 row created.
SQL> INSERT INTO mytable VALUES (6,'In Progress');
1 row created.
SQL> INSERT INTO mytable VALUES (7,'In progress, OK?');
1 row created.
SQL> INSERT INTO mytable VALUES (8,'In Progress Check Back In Three Days'' Time');
1 row created.
SQL> SELECT *
2 FROM mytable m
3 WHERE +1 NOT IN (INSTR(m.status,'Done')
4 , INSTR(m.status,'Finished except')
5 , INSTR(m.status,'In Progress'));
ID STATUS
---------- --------------------------------------------------
3 You shall (not?) pass
7 In progress, OK?
SQL>