I have a problem formulating a MySQL query to do the following task, although I have seen similar queries discussed here, they are sufficiently different from this one to snooker my attempts to transpose them. The problem is (fairly) simple to state. I have three tables, 'members', 'dog_shareoffered' and 'dog_sharewanted'. Members may have zero, one or more adverts for things they want to sell or want to buy, and the details are stored in the corresponding offered or wanted table, together with the id of the member who placed the ad. The column 'id' is unique to the member, and common to all three tables. The query I want is to ask how many members have NOT placed an ad in either table.
I have tried several ways of asking this. The closest I can get is a query that doesn't crash! (I am not a MySQL expert by any means). The following I have put together from what I gleaned from other examples, but it returns zero rows, where I know the result should be greater than zero.
SELECT id
FROM members
WHERE id IN (SELECT id
FROM dog_sharewanted
WHERE id IS NULL)
AND id IN (SELECT id
FROM dog_shareoffered
WHERE id IS NULL)
THis query looks pleasingly simple to understand, unlike the 'JOIN's' I've seen but I am guessing that maybe I need some sort of Join, but how would that look in this case?