This is not possible AFAIK. but yes,you can set the selected tab's color to look like it is unselected and set a blank layout over it by managing a global variable when you make it 'unselected' and setting up normal layout when you want it to be shown normally to user. But this is kind of a trick.
Hope,you get my point!
EDIT :
Suppose you have set String what="disappear"
somewhere in your code to show it 'unselected',then you can use this function to change color of tab:
Main.class:
//Change The Backgournd Color of Tabs
public void setTabColor(TabHost tabhost) {
for(int i=0;i<tabhost.getTabWidget().getChildCount();i++)
{
tabhost.getTabWidget().getChildAt(i).setBackgroundColor(Color.parseColor("#FFFFFF"))); //unselected white colored
}
if(!what.equals("disappear"))
tabhost.getTabWidget().getChildAt(tabhost.getCurrentTab()).setBackgroundColor(Color.parseColor("FF0000"))); // selected red colored
else
tabhost.getTabWidget().getChildAt(tabhost.getCurrentTab()).setBackgroundColor(Color.parseColor("FFFFFF"))); // selected but show as unselected with white color
}
And in your activity class(which is opened by that selected tab):
FirstActivity.class:
if(what.equals("disappear"))
setContentView(R.layout.blank);
else
setContentView(R.layout.first_layout);
blank.xml:
<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8"?>
<LinearLayout
xmlns:android="http://schemas.android.com/apk/res/android"
android:layout_width="fill_parent"
android:layout_height="fill_parent"
android:orientation="vertical"
android:id="@+id/layout"
android:background="#ffffff"
android:gravity="center">
<!-- You can make background transperent by setting it to "00ffffff" -->
<!-- You can also add this textview to guide user -->
<!--
<TextView
android:layout_width="fill_parent"
android:layout_height="wrap_content"
android:text="Click Any Tab To Start
/>
-->
</LinearLayout>