So I never know what to do here.
Say you have Order, which has_one Member.
If you call say, my_order.member.first_name where that associated member has been deleted, you can a nilClass error. I can do my_order.member.try(:first_name).. but that just seems like a dumb workaround. I don't want to stick a bunch of tries everywhere.
I've read [this article] on Nil objects: http://robots.thoughtbot.com/post/8181879506/if-you-gaze-into-nil-nil-gazes-also-into-you?
Good stuff. But I would think rails has something handy for this since it's so common.. instead of writing your own custom nilClass or something.