I've set up tailscale and connected to an exit node on my VPS on vultr.com. Predictably, I was kicked out and couldn't reconnect, as the VPS's public IP address has changed.
I can reboot the VPS and try again. What steps will I need to take? Does my VPS running behind an exit node even have a unique public address (which?), or does it need to be set up for something like port forwarding?
From looking at tailscale documentation, it looks like they came up with their own ssh, why? Why is the standard ssh inadequate for the purpose? I am not the admin of my tailscale network, and the admin is swamped right now. What can I do?