I got this sample code from this forum.
<DatePicker SelectedDate="{Binding MainReportEndDate, Mode=TwoWay}"
DataContext="{Binding DataContext, RelativeSource= {RelativeSource FindAncestor, AncestorType={x:Type GroupBox}}}"
DisplayDateStart="1/01/20" DisplayDateEnd="12/31/22"
FirstDayOfWeek="Monday"">
<DatePicker.Resources>
<Style TargetType="{x:Type DatePickerTextBox}">
<Setter Property="Control.Template">
<Setter.Value>
<ControlTemplate>
<TextBox x:Name="PART_TextBox"
Text="{Binding Path=SelectedDate,
RelativeSource={RelativeSource AncestorType={x:Type DatePicker}},
StringFormat={}{0:MMM yy}}" />
</ControlTemplate>
</Setter.Value>
</Setter>
</Style>
</DatePicker.Resources>
</DatePicker>
But it doesn't work. I want the same result as the one in the picture "Jul 20"