First, I could not ask this on most hardware forums, because they are mostly populated by gamers. Additionally, it is difficult to get an opinion from sysadmins, because they have a fairly different perspective as well.
So perhaps, amongst developers, I might be able to deduce a realistic trend.
What I want to know is, if I regularly fire up netbeans/eclipse, mysql workbench, 3 to 5 browsers with multi-tabs, along with apache-php / mysql running in the background, perhaps gimp/adobe photoshop from time to time, does the quad core perform considerably faster than a dual core? provided the assumption is that the quad has a slower i.e. clockspeed ~2.8 vs a 3.2 dual-core ?
My only relevant experience is with the old core 2 duo 2.8 Ghz running on 4 Gig ram performed considerably slower than my new Core i5 quad core on 2.8 Ghz (desktops). It is only one sample data, so I can't see if it hold true for everyone.
The end purpose of all this is to help me decide on buying a new laptop ( 4 cores vs 2 cores have quite a difference, currently ).