You're right in that performance is both:
- subjective
- depends largely on data size
I can tell you that I have done this exercise as well. To that end, I think it's important to share this comparison from DB-Engines.com.
In terms of performance, the biggest thing I'd be looking at is how each handles consistency. As a general rule, databases which enforce stronger levels of consistency typically have to sacrifice performance.
- BigTable == strong-consistent
- Cassandra == eventually consistent
Other factors worth considering, are the fact that BigTable limits you to Google Cloud (GCP). And if you don't want to lose performance over the network, you'll also need to pay for more (Janus) instances on GCP for data locality.
In terms of raw DB-Engine "score," Cassandra is currently at 114.112, while BigTable is at a paltry 3.582. These scores will change month-to-month, but in general this signifies that Cassandra has a much stronger community around it. Similarly, Cassandra has 18182 questions on this site, while BigTable only has 449. Bottom line, is that it'll be much easier to get support and answers to questions.
Just based on the underlying strength of the community, Cassandra is the better option here.
Having supported JanusGraph on Cassandra for the last few years, I can tell you that overall it's been solid. The difficulties tend to come into play with bulk data loading. But outside of that, things seem to run pretty well.