I have been using Unison in a star topology to synchronize my two machines through a server. Now I'm trying to replace the server with storage on rsync.net. However, synchronization requires checking the access times in both replicas, which takes rather long on the remote (10-20 minutes) compared to the local replica (less than a minute).
The remote node is "passive", i.e. can only change through synchronization with other nodes. Seems that the scanning of access times on a passive node could be avoided to speed things up.
Is there a way to use such a constraint in Unison? Or possibly other synchronization software?