As far as I understand, WPF controls are not windows. Only the window in a wpf app has a hwnd.
From the msdn site:
"All WPF elements on the screen are ultimately backed by a HWND. When you create a WPF Window, WPF creates a top-level HWND, and uses an HwndSource to put the Window and its WPF content inside the HWND. The rest of your WPF content in the application shares that singular HWND. An exception is menus, combo box drop downs, and other pop-ups. These elements create their own top-level window, which is why a WPF menu can potentially go past the edge of the window HWND that contains it. When you use HwndHost to put an HWND inside WPF, WPF informs Win32 how to position the new child HWND relative to the WPF Window HWND."
For Win32 interoperability see the following link:
http://msdn.microsoft.com/en-us/library/ms742522.aspx
Edit: To enhance the answer to address the comment below:
In order to get the handle of the window that owns the hwnd, you can use the WindowInteropHelper class.
This example is also pulled from the MSDN documentation
in c#
WindowInteropHelper wih = new WindowInteropHelper(myDialog);
wih.Owner = ownerHwnd;
myDialog.ShowDialog();
in vb
Dim wih As New WindowInteropHelper(myDialog)
wih.Owner = ownerHwnd
myDialog.ShowDialog()
I hope this helps.