I do not [...] seek for answers like “consult your lawyer”
You shouldn't rely on non-qualified people for legal advice.
If you don't want to talk to a lawyer, do your own research and take your own risks. In this case, the language of the license is fairly clear and FSF provide extensive explanatory information. But you need to bear in mind that legal language does not always mean what a layman thinks it means ...
But if you are happy to ignore that advice...
My understanding is that LGPL means that you can use it with non-GPL code, provided that 1) you distribute source for any changes that you make to the library, and 2) keep the JAR file separate so that people can upgrade the library independently of your code.
I like GNU and everything the FSF did for the software engineering community. But enterprises like the Apache License better.
That may be so, but if they (enterprises) are willing to use Linux, etc then they can live with your code being GPL as well. And if they can't, they can afford to pay you some money for the privilege of embedding your code in their closed-source application.
On the other hand, you may have no problem with people using your code in that fashion.