Using core you can manually register your handlers and use whatever scope you want. So for example:
services.AddScoped<IPipelineBehavior<MyCommand>, MyHandler>();
We actually wrap Mediatr so we can add various bits and bobs so it ends up being a registration extension like this (CommandContect/QueryContext holds various stuff we use all the time and ExecutionResponse is a standard response so we can have standard post handlers that know what they are getting):
public static IServiceCollection AddCommandHandler<THandler, TCommand>(this IServiceCollection services)
where THandler : class, IPipelineBehavior<CommandContext<TCommand>, ExecutionResponse>
where TCommand : ICommand
{
services.AddScoped<IPipelineBehavior<CommandContext<TCommand>, ExecutionResponse>, THandler>();
return services;
}
Which is used like this:
services.AddCommandHandler<MyHandler, MyCommand>();
We have similar for queries (AddQueryHandler<.....)
Hope that helps