This is the graph of one of my sites https://www.alebalweb-blog.com, first line of firefox development tools -> Network, and I'm not sure that the blocked and waiting entries are "normal".
Waiting, I suspect it's the server's fault, it's a small vps on Vultr - Ubuntu 18.04, the other day I updated to php7-4-fpm and I haven't activated opcache, memcached, acpu or anything else yet, because (unfortunately) my sites are small, less than a thousand visits a day, and I don't know if it makes sense to activate chace systems, maybe they also affect indexing and positioning on search engines? Even if yandex and bing give a lot of work for my little server... and maybe just them would take advantage from the cache?
Blocked, it is more confusing, I'm not sure it's me, everything happens before you get to my server? Maybe it's Vultr's fault? Maybe namesilo's fault? (where domains are registered) Maybe mine, some apache configuration or something else? Maybe they're normal values? I have no idea.
Can anyone help me understand if they are normal values? And if they are not, to understand how I can improve?
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I have read the pages you have suggested to me, even they do not seem to have understood much or found a solution....
I did some things on my little server, like: blocked yandex, enabled opcache, installed memcached.
The intent is to stabilize, to begin to understand something.
I have done many other tests these days, and I have seen results like these:
This is another site, but it is on the same server, the one highlighted is matomo (statistics), the tracking javascript script, is in a sub-domain, but always on the same server.
The difference is enormous, and the tests were done within seconds of each other.
So at this point maybe the question is: do you have any suggestions on what else I can do to start understanding something?
At least to understand if to create these timings is me, if it is my server, the scripts of my sites, the browsers, the connection or what else.