You can easily select the DataTemplate
of the selected ListViewItem
by setting ListView.ItemContainerStyle
and using appropriate triggers.
Here's an example of how you can not only change the visual tree of the selected item, but also animate its properties at the same time as well.
<ListView ItemsSource="{Binding ...}">
<ListView.Resources>
<!-- this is what unselected items will look like -->
<DataTemplate x:Key="DefaultItemTemplate">
<TextBlock FontSize="12" Margin="0,0,10,0" Text="Unselected" />
</DataTemplate>
<DataTemplate x:Key="SelectedItemTemplate">
<Border BorderBrush="Red" BorderThickness="2" Padding="5">
<TextBlock FontSize="12" Margin="0,0,10,0" Text="Selected" />
</Border>
</DataTemplate>
</ListView.Resources>
<ListView.ItemContainerStyle>
<Style TargetType="ListBoxItem">
<!-- set properties for all items -->
<Setter Property="Margin" Value="0,2,0,2" />
<Setter Property="Padding" Value="0,2,0,2" />
<Setter Property="ContentTemplate" Value="{StaticResource DefaultItemTemplate}" />
<Style.Triggers>
<Trigger Property="IsSelected" Value="True">
<!-- change what the selected item looks like -->
<Setter Property="ContentTemplate" Value="{StaticResource SelectedItemTemplate}" />
<!-- animate it as well -->
<Trigger.EnterActions>
<BeginStoryboard>
<Storyboard>
<DoubleAnimation Storyboard.TargetProperty="MinHeight" To="80" Duration="0:0:1" />
</Storyboard>
</BeginStoryboard>
</Trigger.EnterActions>
<Trigger.ExitActions>
<BeginStoryboard>
<Storyboard>
<DoubleAnimation Storyboard.TargetProperty="MinHeight" To="0" Duration="0:0:1" />
</Storyboard>
</BeginStoryboard>
</Trigger.ExitActions>
</Trigger>
</Style.Triggers>
</Style>
</ListView.ItemContainerStyle>
</ListView>