The App Maker engineers are doing crazy changes now and then. I believe their point of view is to make the platform better but this kind of things really annoys me and makes life harder, honestly.
I ran across this problem and find out that they are forcing admins to set up a default instance in the G Suite Admin console. You can read more about that here. You haven't completed that step and that is why you see what you are seeing. Although, it's crazy! What if I don't wanna do that?! But they are the product owners and they establish the rules so we have to suck it up and do what they want! Unless a bunch of people complain about it, they are not changing the behavior.
Fortunately, I was able to find a work around. So what we (you and me) are trying to do, is set up a custom sql database. Right now, that will only be available if you've already done what I described above. So the work around is to import an app that already has a custom sql database set up and then modify the Google Cloud SQL address. Look at the example below:

Here is the demo workaround app that I use. Download it to your machine, then import it as in the image above. I hope this helps!