I want to make a friends list in my online game. I am not sure how to set it up or where to start. The add friends and accept friends part I can handle, but I don't know how to set it up in mysql and php. A list of users (friends) connected to each user or something?
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If your friendship relationship is symmetrical, you can either store each pair in a separate record:
friend1 friend2
A B
B A
A C
B D
C B
D B
and query all B
's friends like that:
SELECT friend2
FROM friends
WHERE friend1 = 'B'
or store the user with the least id
in the first field and that with the greatest id
in the second one:
friend1 friend2
A B
A C
B D
and query B
's friends like that:
SELECT friend1
FROM friends
WHERE friend2 = 'B'
UNION ALL
SELECT friend2
FROM friends
WHERE friend1 = 'B'
The first option is a little bit more efficient in MySQL
, and this is the only option if your friendship relationship is not symmetrical (like on LiveJournal
)
See this article:

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Do you need to assign a primary key still on the relationship table? – MikeS Jan 12 '12 at 19:04
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@Mike: of course you do, to get rid of duplicates and to speed up searches. The relationship table can also have attributes on its own (like a date of the friendship established etc). – Quassnoi Jan 12 '12 at 21:30
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If I understand correctly, you're talking about composite primary keys, right? Both primary keys and both foreign keys referencing back to the "users" table. – MikeS Jan 13 '12 at 01:17
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@MikeSanchez: `CREATE TABLE friendship(a INT NOT NULL REFERENCES users, b INT NOT NULL REFERENCES users, PRIMARY KEY (a, b))` – Quassnoi Jan 13 '12 at 05:13
A friendship is essentially a mutual relationship between two people. In database terms it's a many-to-many relationship between two users.
So what you need is a linking table that holds references to two users by ID.
Example
Users table
ID Username
1 Bob
2 Jim
3 Alice
Friends table
user1 user2
1 2
2 3
This would make Bob friends Jim and Jim friends with Alice.
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Hi @robinjam! Just wanted to check with you regarding this. If my friend list is symmetrical, should it go like this: If 1 is friends with 2 then 2 is friends with one. Creating 2 row entries in the table for their relationship. Thanks! – MikeS Jan 06 '12 at 10:47
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Mike Sanchez: The Friends table is modelling mutual friendships, so you'll want 1 row per friendship, not 1 row per person. – Jan 07 '12 at 05:29
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I was going to try and use this kind of set up in a php+mysql environment. Correct me if I'm wrong but with your kind of set up, I would have to use UNION. As opposed to creating 2 entries in the table I can just use a single WHERE user1="1" statement. – MikeS Jan 07 '12 at 21:10
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Mike Sanchez: Depends what you're trying to do. Could you open a new question rather than posting comments on this one? – Jan 09 '12 at 01:22
Check out the answers in this other post here on stackoverflow...some simple but great explanations to accomplishing what you need.

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An alternative would be to set column A as follow: $checkfriend = (($friend1 $friend2) || ($friend2 $friend1))
Column B as follow: (friendship accepted or friendship rejected) based on user's choice
Basically have both user1 and user2 in the same column.

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