TeX and LaTeX really confuse me. I know that there is no official distribution, and that it's a bit like Linux in that there are many packagers and distributions. A lot of the distributions that people suggest to me seem to have lost their maintainers (TeTex for example). There are also different options available within those distributions for converting to pdf and so on.
What is the current consensus, the state of the art, the done thing? Is there a consensus in the first place?
Which distribution should I use (on Mac, via ports if that matters)?
What workflow (commands, tools) should I use to convert latex to pdf?
Thanks.