You can monitor for two event types: ConversationUpdate and ContactRelationUpdate.
The first one (ConversationUpdate) is called when a user is added or removed from the conversation. So, there's a place where you can introduce available options. It will be each type the new conversation has started. So, it may become annoying, you may add a check - do not show it if the user has been using the bot for some time.
The second (ContactRelationUpdate) is called when a user adds or removes the bot to/from the contacts. In general, it is only called once per user action.
Here's the extract from the Bot-Frameworks examples:
For Node.Js
bot.on('conversationUpdate', function (message) {
// Check for group conversations
if (message.address.conversation.isGroup) {
// Send a hello message when bot is added
if (message.membersAdded) {
message.membersAdded.forEach(function (identity) {
if (identity.id === message.address.bot.id) {
var reply = new builder.Message()
.address(message.address)
.text("Hello everyone!");
bot.send(reply);
}
});
}
// Send a goodbye message when bot is removed
if (message.membersRemoved) {
message.membersRemoved.forEach(function (identity) {
if (identity.id === message.address.bot.id) {
var reply = new builder.Message()
.address(message.address)
.text("Goodbye");
bot.send(reply);
}
});
}
}
});
bot.on('contactRelationUpdate', function (message) {
if (message.action === 'add') {
var name = message.user ? message.user.name : null;
var reply = new builder.Message()
.address(message.address)
.text("Hello %s... Thanks for adding me. Say 'hello' to see some great demos.", name || 'there');
bot.send(reply);
} else {
// delete their data
}
});
For C#
private void HandleMessage(Activity message)
{
if (message.Type == ActivityTypes.ConversationUpdate)
{
if (activity.MembersAdded.Any(m => m.Id == activity.Recipient.Id))
{
var connector = new ConnectorClient(new Uri(activity.ServiceUrl));
var response = activity.CreateReply();
response.Text = "Hi! I am Bot. Here's what you can do...";
await connector.Conversations.ReplyToActivityAsync(response);
}
}
else if (message.Type == ActivityTypes.ContactRelationUpdate)
{
if (Activity.AsContactRelationUpdateActivity().Action == ContactRelationUpdateActionTypes.Add)
{
var connector = new ConnectorClient(new Uri(activity.ServiceUrl));
var response = activity.CreateReply();
response.Text = "Hi! I am Bot. Thanks for adding me. Here's what you can do...";
}
}
return null;
}