I'm at a loss here. I'm coding a forum and users will have the ability to be notified via email when someone replies to a thread they are involved in. So, user A, B, and C are all active on a thread and want to be notified when there is a post. When user D comes along and posts to the thread, I need to send an email to A, B, and C.
I normally send emails using CDO (ASP Classic) but the problem is, what happens when I need to send to users A though Z, or more?
User D comes along, hits POST, and then I write the text to the database and start sending out emails--and he has to wait until they are sent.
Obviously, that is not the way to handle this. But I am totally clueless as to what to implement here. A third party? A component? Is there a way to have this run in the background? Ive done a lot of websites but have never had to do email like this.
Any direction would be REALLY appreciated.