These are the steps that I've taken and either I've missed a step or I'm just going in the wrong direction.
First:
dokku certs:generate app_name domain name
This helped me create a self-signed ssl certificate so now I'm in possession of a server.crt and a server.key file .
Second: I imported this SSL combination into AWS using the AWS certificate manager
Third: I set up a load balancer (not sure if I need one, but it looks like amazon insists on it) I have two listeners on it, one for port 80 for http and one for port 443 for https
Fourth: I set up 2 target groups, one for http and one for https Right now it's health check is saying that none of the two are healthy. If I disable the certificate on dokku with (dokku certs:remove) I noticed that the http one becomes healthy again.
Fifth: I went back to my EC2's security group and updated it to accept inbound and outbound of https along with its other protocols.
Any ideas of what I'm doing wrong/may have missed?
More info: I am running a ruby on rails application with postgres, Unicorn and dokku.