I think "Compiling Vim With Ruby Integration On Snow Leopard" might actually help. I'm on exactly same boat at the moment.
Ok... got it to work. Took me like half hour or so.
This should help (I got Ubuntu):
sudo apt-get install mercurial
hg clone https://vim.googlecode.com/hg/ vim
cd vim
./configure --enable-rubyinterp
make
sudo make install
To test if things look fancy:
vim --version | grep ruby
Should return something like:
-python3 +quickfix +reltime -rightleft +ruby +scrollbind +signs +smartindent
Ruby should have plus now. Another trick to test it - enter vim
and hit :ruby 1
. Should not fail.