After Apache upgrade on my shared server, I have been having nightmare issues with the form input on all of my reseller hosting accounts. The clients get 403 (or in case of Wordpress install, 404, which has really confused me) after the simplest, most innocent looking form input. For example "he is having a lot of trouble" in a text field results in 403!
It took almost two weeks to figure out what's going on, as the error seemed random and hard to replicate, but after I asked for exact text from the clients that they were not able to enter, we got to the modsec issue. The answer from tech help was "While checking the issue in detail, we found that a mod_security rule was getting triggered on the server while trying to submit the content as "he is having a lot of trouble". We have whitelisted the rule for the website which resolved the issues.".
My question is - how can I deal with this proactively? Is there a list of rules for mod_security that I can check, test some input, ask for additional whitelisting etc? With about a 100 accounts all having problems, it's enough to want to get out of the hosting business all together.