There is a Coeffs
field in your fitted object containing all the relevant information http://uk.mathworks.com/help/stats/classificationdiscriminant-class.html
In particular, if you fit a linear LDA there will be Linear
field which is the linear operator used for projection. However, one should bear in mind that value of coefficients of linear models are not feature importances. There is much more in that to consider. Weight can be big because your feature have small values or because there is a highly biased distribution of the values. If you need feature selection technique - use feature selection methods (like L1 regularized models) otherwise you might easily get wrong conclusions from your data.