No there is not a way to print the owners of an object as you describe, at least not exactly. iOS does not use garbage collection, it uses ARC (Automatic Reference Counting.) The system doesn't track owning references in ARC. Instead, each time you add an owning reference to an object the system increases a retain count, and every time you clear an owning reference the system decrements that retain count.
What you can do, though, is run your program with the memory instrument. (There is a debugging application called "Instruments", you pick a debugging template called an "instrument" that you use within the Instruments program.) With the memory instrument you can follow the life-cycle of an object, as well as tracking the number of active objects in your app's heap.. When you select an object in the list of currently active object you can see where in your program it was allocated and where the code that creates strong references comes from. Explaining how to use Instruments is beyond the scope of an SO post however. There are various tutorials and WWDC session videos on the subject. I suggest doing some searching.
As to your question, forcing a low memory warning would not cause an active view controller (one that is on-screen) to be released and it's deinit method to be called. The system maintains a strong reference to the view controller.
Also, you should make delegate references weak by default. Having a delegate reference be a strong reference is VERY unusual. I've only seen it once or twice, for specific reasons.