Cannot Implement a Tableviewcell with Both an Image and Row Action with Parse

Question

I've having trouble getting an image and a row action on a table view cell simultaneously. I can get a few different permutations to work (row action works but image only loads after row action activated, image loads but row action not available) but I cannot get the image to load on page load and to have the row action accessible.

override func tableView(tableView: UITableView, cellForRowAtIndexPath indexPath: NSIndexPath) -> UITableViewCell {
    let cell = tableView.dequeueReusableCellWithIdentifier("childrenCell", forIndexPath: indexPath) as! ChildrenTableViewCell

    cell.textLabel?.text = childFirstName[indexPath.row]
    cell.detailTextLabel?.text = childLastName[indexPath.row]


    self.childImage[indexPath.row].getDataInBackgroundWithBlock { (imageData: NSData?, error: NSError?) -> Void in
        if error == nil {
            let image = UIImage(data: imageData!)
            cell.imageView?.image = image

        }
      self.tableView.reloadData()
    }

    return cell
}

The above code is used to populate the cells with data. If I move the self.tableView.reloadData() around, I get different combinations (but not the one I want). The code for the row action is pretty standard, provides two options for the user.

On a side note, I'd prefer to get the data from Parse in viewDidLoad query (below), but I can't seem to get that to work. Perhaps the answer is to solve that problem instead of placing the query in the cellForRowAtIndexPath.

    let query = PFQuery(className:"children")
    query.whereKey("programID", equalTo: passedProgramID!)
    query.findObjectsInBackgroundWithBlock {
        (objects: [PFObject]?, error: NSError?) -> Void in
        if error == nil {
            print("Successfully retrieved \(objects!.count) children.")
            if let objects = objects {
                for object in objects {
                    self.childFirstName.append(object["childFirstName"] as! String)
                    self.childLastName.append(object["childLastName"] as! String)
                    self.childImage.append(object["childImage"] as! PFFile)  
                }
            }
        } else {
            print("Error: \(error!) \(error!.userInfo)")
        }
    }
        self.tableView.reloadData()