You can use the following CLI operations on the MDB. For details see https://docs.jboss.org/author/display/WFLY10/Message+Driven+Beans+Controlled+Delivery. Though the documentation is for WildFly 10; it also works with WildFly 9.x
For standalone mode:
[standalone@localhost:9990 /] cd deployment=jboss-helloworld-mdb.war/subsystem=ejb3/message-driven-bean=HelloWorldMDB
[standalone@localhost:9990 message-driven-bean=HelloWorldMDB] :stop-delivery
{"outcome" => "success"}
[standalone@localhost:9990 message-driven-bean=HelloWorldMDB] :start-delivery
{"outcome" => "success"}
For domain mode:
Stop delivery
/host=master/server=default/deployment=helloworld.app.war/subsystem=ejb3/message-driven-bean=HelloWorldMDB:stop-delivery
Start delivery:
/host=master/server=default/deployment=helloworld.app.war/subsystem=ejb3/message-driven-bean=HelloWorldMDB:start-delivery
If the MDB resides in an EJB jar inside an EAR file:
/host=master/server=default/deployment=helloworld.app.ear/subdeployment=helloworld.core.impl.jar/subsystem=ejb3/message-driven-bean=HelloWorldMDB:start-delivery