Reading lots on this for my first network game, I understand the core difference of guaranteed delivery versus time-to-deliver for TCP v UDP. I've also read diametrically opposed views whether realtime games should use UDP or TCP! ;)
What no-one has covered well is how to handle the issue of a dropped packet.
TCP : Read an article using TCP for an FPS that recommended only using TCP. How would an authoritative server using TCP client input handle a packet drop and sudden epic spike in lag? Does the game just stop for a moment and then pick up where it left off? Is TCP packet loss so rare that it's not really that much of an issue and an FPS over TCP actually works well?
UDP : Another article suggested only ever using UDP. Clearly one-shot UDP events like "grenade thrown" aren't reliable enough as they won't fire some of the time. Do you have to implement a message-received, resend protocol manually? Or some other solution?
My game is a tick-based authoritative server with 1/10th second updates from the server to clients and local simulation to keep things seeming more responsive, although the question is applicable to a lot more applications.