Hopefully I do a good job asking this question...
My web host (WebFaction) contacted me and said that one of the sites I'm hosting is using too many resources from the shared MySQL pool. They said that I should create a private MySQL instance on my application server and run things from there so as not to impact other sites.
An understandably fair and reasonable request. I've gone ahead and created the private instance database as they have a one-click installer. However from what I can tell it has no phpMyAdmin, and I've never worked with a "private instance" dB before so have some questions...
- Being a 95% WordPress user do I have to have a private instance dB for every WordPress site I host, or can one handle the needs of many?
- If the later...how ()?
- I absolutely refuse to ssh into the dB to make any changes. I've never done it before, I don't know the syntax, and it scares the hell out of me truthfully. Is there an app/tool (I'm a Mac user) that makes interacting with my private instance dB simple and easy? I've been looking into Sequel Pro but I'm not sure.
Again, I hope the way I asked this isn't too confusing.