I want to achieve the same effect as in Visual Studio 2010+, where if you float an editor on top of the main form, clicking on a main form menu or toolbar button doesn't cause the main form to steal focus; instead the floating window retains focus.
Without this it becomes impossible to invoke any main menu command that operates on a focused control when the focused control is in a floating window - because the control you wanted to operate on loses focus just as the command is invoked.
(Ironically, if you look closely at this image you'll see that the selection in the editor is muted, indicating that the editor control doesn't have focus. Visual Studio seems to be doing something slightly devious to achieve the illusion that the floating window is still focused.)