Here is how I would go about it in SQL Server
The query below will get the average weight from a fictional Scale table holding a single weigh-in for each person while not permitting those who are overly fat or thin to throw off the more realistic average:
select w.Gender, Avg(w.Weight) as AvgWeight
from ScaleData w
join ( select d.Gender, Avg(d.Weight) as AvgWeight,
2*STDDEVP(d.Weight) StdDeviation
from ScaleData d
group by d.Gender
) d
on w.Gender = d.Gender
and w.Weight between d.AvgWeight-d.StdDeviation
and d.AvgWeight+d.StdDeviation
group by w.Gender
There may be a better way to go about this, but it works and works well. If you have come across another more efficient solution, I’d love to hear about it.
NOTE: the above removes the top and bottom 5% of outliers out of the picture for purpose of the Average. You can adjust the number of outliers removed by adjusting the 2* in the 2*STDDEVP as per: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Standard_deviation