Similar issue where I was getting permissions failed. On my setup, I SSH in only. So What I did to correct the issue was
sudo MySQL
SELECT User, Host FROM mysql.user WHERE Host <> '%';
MariaDB [(none)]> SELECT User, Host FROM mysql.user WHERE Host <> '%';
+-------+-------------+
| User | Host |
+-------+-------------+
| root | 169.254.0.% |
| foo | 192.168.0.% |
| bar | 192.168.0.% |
+-------+-------------+
4 rows in set (0.00 sec)
I need these users moved to 'localhost'. So I issued the following:
UPDATE mysql.user SET host = 'localhost' WHERE user = 'foo';
UPDATE mysql.user SET host = 'localhost' WHERE user = 'bar';
Run SELECT User, Host FROM mysql.user WHERE Host <> '%'; again and we see:
MariaDB [(none)]> SELECT User, Host FROM mysql.user WHERE Host <> '%';
+-------+-------------+
| User | Host |
+-------+-------------+
| root | 169.254.0.% |
| foo | localhost |
| bar | localhost |
+-------+-------------+
4 rows in set (0.00 sec)
And then I was able to work normally again. Hope that helps someone.
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