Mark's answer covers this very nicely, but I'll expand on what he said here a bit.
Shane, Fine Uploader is a tool that provides cross-browser file upload support to an existing web application. It is not a turnkey web application in a box. Nor should it be. The problem of uploading files cross-browser along with all related features is complex enough. Your requirement has nothing to do with uploading files. It is out of scope for any cross-browser file upload tool. These are statements I am making based on my understanding of your requirement, which is very hard to follow as you have not provided much detail.
Once the files have been uploaded and the page/component has been dismissed, Fine Uploader's job is done. If you want to provide your users with a way to edit existing files, you should certainly do that, but you should not expect an upload library to assist with this. Fine Uploader is not a general-purpose UI tool, nor is it anything other than a library to allow cross-browser file uploading along with all closely related features. No other upload library will behave as a general-purpose UI tool either. If your application design depends on the upload tool to be responsible for generating random portions of your UI and supporting non-upload-related features, then I highly suggest you re-evaluate the design of your web app.
Fine Uploader's default UI is very basic, and only really designed for the task of disseminating file upload state to the user and handling closely related tasks. Think of this (or any) upload library as a hammer. It is great at pounding nails. You seem to want to both pound nails and saw wood, with the same tool. I suppose we could take as hammer and add a serrated bland to the side of it, but that would make it a less effective and awkward to use tool at both pounding nails and sawing wood. Use a hammer for pounding nails, and a saw for cutting wood.
Finally, I'm a bit concerned or confused that you have apparently modified the fileTemplate
option to add "other options (such as delete)" to the library. I'm not sure if you know that deleting a file is already a feature natively integrated into the library. I'm not sure if you are using an old version of the library, if you just missed this in the documentation, or if I am misunderstanding you.