I am implementing a sinatra/rails based web portal that might eventually have few many:many relationships between tables/models. This is a one man team and part time but real world app.
I discussed my entity with someone and was advised to try neo4j. Coming from real 'non-sexy' enterprise world, my inclination is to use relational db until it stops scaling or becomes a nightmare because of sharding etc and then think about anything else.
HOWEVER,
- I am using postgres for the first time in this project along with datamapper and its taking me time to get started very fast
- I am just trying out few things and building more use cases so I consitently have to update my schema (prototyping idea and feedback from beta) . I wont have to do this in neo4j (except changing my queries)
- Seems like its very easy to setup search using neo4j . But Postgres can do full text search as well.
- Postgres recently announced support for json and javascript. Wondering if I should just stick with PG and invest more time learning PG (which has a good community) instead neo4j.
Looking for usecases where neo4j is better, especially at protyping/initial phase of a project. I understand if the website grows I might end up having multiple persistent technologies like s3, relational (PG), mongo etc.
Also it would be good to know how it plays out with Rails/Ruby ecosystem.
Update1:
I got a lot of good answers and seems like the right thing to do is stick with Postgres for now (especially since I deploy to heroku)
However the idea of being schema-less is tempting. Basically I am thinking of a approach where you don't define a datamodel until you have say 100-150 users and you have yourself figured out a good schema (business use cases) for your product , while you are just demoing the concept and getting feedback with limited signups. Then one can decide a schema and start with relational.
Would be nice to know if there are easy to use schema/less persistence option (based on ease to use/setup for new user) that might give up say scaling etc.