I am working on a web application that will require users to have their own set of private data. My original plan was to create a stores table, a users table, and a user_stores intersecting table. Then I would, in the stores table, save the database name for that store (and create each store-specific database with an application user and password so the web application could always login).
Each store would have similar data (users, products, shipping methods, etc), and I know I can use foreign key references to tie everything together in one giant database. However, being that the data is very specific and potentially proprietary, would it be better to use my original design, or make a single database with everyone's data in there?
I am thinking for scaling concerns, separate databases would be better because we could put the more active accounts on their own (or more powerful) database servers and simply add a server location field in the stores table if we needed to. Additionally, it may be more secure because we could make add the user login information to the database and only give them access to their data (preventing one user from editing another user's stuff). My question is, are there concerns that I am missing though? Just about every post I have read about this says not to use the method I am thinking of, and I am no DBA. Any input would be helpful.
Additional Information: This will be hosted on a Dedicated Server that I will have root access to. I can create as many MySQL databases as I need to.