In Eclipse you could set the -D options to include {} variables that were defined elsewhere within your IDE settings. IntelliJ would seem to provide this feature with Path Variables. However, if you follow their Help documents, you're supposed to be able to reference these variables between $dollar_characters$. Further research would seem to indicate that that only applies to the interior of your project files and the replacement is done during build time.
I'm trying to create a shared server configuration where a couple of the system properties can be swapped out by the other developers, but this one has me stumped.