First, a note regarding the classification method to use.
If you intend to use the image pixels themselves as features, neural network might be a fitting classification method. In that case, I think it might be a better idea to train the same network to distinguish between the various objects, rather than using a separate network for each, because it would allow the network to focus on the most discriminative features.
However, if you intend to extract synthetic features from the image and base the classification on them, I would suggest considering other classification methods, e.g. SVM.
The reason is that neural networks generally have many parameters to set (e.g. network size and architecture), making the process of building a classifier longer and more complicated.
Specifically regarding your NN-related questions, I would suggest using a feedforward network, which is relatively easy to build and train, with a softmax output layer, which allows assigning probabilities to the various classes.
In case you're using a single network for classification, the question regarding negative examples is irrelevant; for each class, other classes would be its negative examples. If you decide to use different networks, you can use the same counter-examples (i.e. other classes), but as a rule of thumb, I'd suggest showing no more than 2-10 negative examples per positive example.
EDIT:
based on the comments below, it seems the problem is to decide how fitting is a given image (drawing) to a given concept, e.g. how similar to a tree is the the user-supplied tree drawing.
In this case, I'd suggest a radically different approach: extract visual features from each drawing, and perform knn classification, based on all past user-supplied drawings and their classifications (possibly, plus a predefined set generated by you). You can score the similarity either by the nominal distance to same-class examples, or by the class distribution of the closest matches.
I know that this is not neccessarily what you're asking, but this seems to me an easier and more direct approach, especially given the fact that the number of examples and classes is expected to constantly grow.