I'm doing exactly this by trying to disable AutoHosting. However now I get "Failed to connect to mod-mono-server after several attempts to spawn the process." in the logs. The path is correct
Here's my config:
<VirtualHost *:80>
ServerName myserver.com
DocumentRoot /home/abe/html/
MonoServerPath myserver.com "/usr/local/bin/mod-mono-server2"
MonoDebug myserver.com true
MonoSetEnv myserver.com MONO_IOMAP=all
MonoAutoApplication disabled
MonoApplications myserver.com "/:/home/abe/html/"
<Location "/">
Allow from all
Order allow,deny
MonoSetServerAlias myserver.com
SetHandler mono
</Location>
</VirtualHost>
Fixed: see the answer below.
With the fix, though, how can I get the configuration I want w/o doing the dangerous process of editing the auto-gen'd httpd.conf?