Set breakpoints on methods in files that implement the dialog. So maybe search for dialog and then put breakpoints inside the dialog. See it it gets hit when your dialog gets pulled up. Or just see where the layouts are set in files that have the word dialog in them. look for R.layout.someLayoutName.
One other suggestion is for some difficult layouts where its tough to see whats going on you can use the HierachyViewer to see the runtime view layouts: http://developer.android.com/tools/help/hierarchy-viewer.html Its worth running on your app to see the structure of the layouts at runtime which is often hard to see these relationships in the layout files before they have been inflated.
BTW, I was a student of CS and the biggest mistake I ever made was not to learn the debugger inside and out. Its without a doubt the most powerful ally you have to learn as well as fix bugs. If you think about it, code really is only an abstraction until you see it running inside the debugger.