The simple answer is that (at time of writing) what you want almost certainly didn't exist. Sorry!
If you're Windows-based then I'd look for a product in the .NET space, where I expect you'd find something. You're probably going to have to pay real money though. I suppose, if you're brave, you may be able to talk to it using IronRuby.
From a non-MS environment I would be hoping for a Java-based solution. As already mentioned, within the Web world, you're going to be hoping some something JavaScript-based, or probably more likely, something from the Flash (or maybe even Silverlight?) world.
Actually, if you want to stay in Ruby and don't mind some risk, Silverlight might be a way to go - assuming the DLR stuff actually works (no experience here). Ruby - much as I love it - hardly has the most mature GUI structure around it.
Update: Since writing this (approaching 5 years ago) the situation has improved - a little. While I'm still not aware of any specific Ruby graph-drawing libraries, there is improved support for Graphviz here (Github) or by gem install ruby-graphviz
. I've found that for simple graphs, it's quite possible to write the script directly from Ruby.