Check
/proc/sys/net/netfilter/nf_conntrack_tcp_timeout_time_wait
Or
/proc/sys/net/netfilter/nf_conntrack_tcp_timeout_close_wait
I was looking for a solution to reduce the amount of XXX_WAIT on my server
[mihamina@RKTMB ~]$ sudo ss -taupen | grep WAIT
tcp TIME-WAIT 0 0 127.0.0.1:3128 127.0.0.1:60036 timer:(timewait,15sec,0) ino:0 sk:ffff9bbf5ba65000
tcp TIME-WAIT 0 0 127.0.0.1:3128 127.0.0.1:60024 timer:(timewait,1.420ms,0) ino:0 sk:ffff9bbee4aa2300
tcp TIME-WAIT 0 0 127.0.0.1:59994 127.0.0.1:3128 timer:(timewait,54sec,0) ino:0 sk:ffff9bbf5ba64c00
tcp TIME-WAIT 0 0 127.0.0.1:60028 127.0.0.1:3128 timer:(timewait,2.467ms,0) ino:0 sk:ffff9bbee4aa2600
tcp TIME-WAIT 0 0 127.0.0.1:59946 127.0.0.1:3128 timer:(timewait,23sec,0) ino:0 sk:ffff9bbf5ba65900
tcp TIME-WAIT 0 0 127.0.0.1:3128 127.0.0.1:60032 timer:(timewait,7.045ms,0) ino:0 sk:ffff9bbee4aa2800
tcp TIME-WAIT 0 0 127.0.0.1:60030 127.0.0.1:3128 timer:(timewait,5.521ms,0) ino:0 sk:ffff9bbee4aa2a00
... # I have a Loooooottt
And I found https://www.lognormal.com/blog/2012/09/27/linux-tcpip-tuning/
But if you read carefully, they warn about packets mess...