I've setup mysql to create its socket in /tmp/mysql.sock via /etc/mysql/my.conf but after restarting mysql server, the socket file doesn't show up. If I change the socket location to /var/run/mysql/mysql.sock it creates it. Lsof even tells me that the mysql process has a socket open at /tmp/mysql.sock but it's simply not there.
I guess the console output below describes it best.
λ paukul [~] → ls -al /tmp
total 12
drwxrwxrwt 8 root root 220 Nov 13 01:55 .
drwxr-xr-x 18 root root 4096 Oct 18 16:03 ..
drwxrwxrwt 2 root root 40 Nov 13 01:54 .font-unix
drwxrwxrwt 2 root root 40 Nov 13 01:54 .ICE-unix
-rw------- 1 paukul paukul 104 Nov 13 01:55 serverauth.HPR12fsB3
drwx------ 3 root root 60 Nov 13 01:54 systemd-private-23e4ad16efb8basdb2eb23b2073-mysqld.service-aio3pf
drwxrwxrwt 2 root root 40 Nov 13 01:54 .Test-unix
srwx------ 1 root root 0 Nov 13 01:54 wpa_ctrl_384-1
-r--r--r-- 1 root paukul 11 Nov 13 01:55 .X0-lock
drwxrwxrwt 2 root root 60 Nov 13 01:55 .X11-unix
drwxrwxrwt 2 root root 40 Nov 13 01:54 .XIM-unix
λ paukul [~] → ps aux | grep mysqld
mysql 323 0.0 0.6 596380 101712 ? Ssl 01:54 0:00 /usr/bin/mysqld --pid-file=/run/mysqld/mysqld.pid
λ paukul [~] → sudo lsof -p 323 | grep sock
[sudo] password for paukul:
mysqld 323 mysql 22u unix 0xffff88040add4600 0t0 15296 /tmp/mysql.sock type=STREAM
λ paukul [~] → grep socket /etc/mysql/my.cnf
socket = /tmp/mysql.sock
socket = /tmp/mysql.sock