I could probably make a better title, edit it if you find a better way of phasing my problem. Basically what's happened is that a gameserver host thinks I keep attacking their dedicated server with a DDoS attack; but I do not.
I have a theory that someone is faking their IP so it matches up with mine, and is launching attacks with it. I am worried that this is the case, and am having a hard time convincing the owner of the gameservers that it's not me attacking his servers.
How plausible is this theory?
I also have a connection with only 64kbps upload; this is no near enough to bring the dedicated servers' network down. I would not do such a thing, but if I were to launch a full-scale DDoS attack from my network, what effect would it have (if any) on the target dedicated server?
Edit
The server is question is not mine, but I know the sysadmin of it and can tell you the specs: 16 core (dual CPU) Intel Xeon, 32GB RAM, 8TB HDD space. The sysadmin claims the attack crashed some of the running gameservers on the server.
This question has nothing to do with my other question, which is about testing my software's handling of a DDoS. https://i.stack.imgur.com/2uUol.jpg