I need a tool which would while doing port forwarding measure how much time was spent establishing TCP connections vs total time passed. Charles debugging proxy has the port forwarding feature and shows the total time from the beginning of the first to the end of the last connection in a selected group but it doesn't show the connection establishment overhead.
We're using a remote SVN server and it is not configured to use Keep-Alive but we do not have direct access to the server so we need a proof of this causing an overhead and slowing things down to convince the other party to change the configuration.