Ok, so I have done a really stupid thing,
Basicly I pointed the A record host to itself, of course what I intended to do wasn't working doh. And I changed the host to "@". BUT i was wondering what could happen if I left this in place.
Why I am asking this : For multiple days every 12h my server disconnected from internet (all ports, even ssh). I had to hard reboot. Looking at logs after, nothing specific on linux, the server was just no accessible until I hard rebooted it.
I can't test this case anymore, and tonnes of changes where made in addition of this correction. So i'm not sure my previous problems was indeed cause by this stupidness or another one of mine.
For info : server is hosted on professional server hoster and is one bare metal (not shared).
For info 2 : Here the ip is made of random numbers