The "whumph" is the volatile constituents igniting after they evaporated. Those will mainly come from the gasoline.
Lighting the liquid fuel as compared with the vapour is difficult. The liquid only burns when the burning vapour starts to heat it up and vaporize more of it. That's why you get a big, relatively cool, sooty flame which don't do much to get the rest of the fire going.
A typical aircraft fire safety demonstration usually involves attempting to light a 2-gallon bucket full of jet fuel (which is basically kerosene, and vaporizes less than diesel) by dropping a lighted cigarette into it. The fuel puts the cigarette out just as effectively as dropping it into a bucket of water. Of course lighting it with a blow torch that is powerful enough to heat the liquid has a different outcome!
The way to light a wet fire (and also a dry fire) is from the bottom up, not the top down. Even if you only have "wet" wood, the inside of a reasonable diameter log will be dry. Split off the bark, chop up the core into thin sticks, and you will be able to light them with a match and a bit of dry cotton cloth - or even paper, but cloth is better because it burns slower.
Then build your wet fire on top of the dry one, so the wet material first dries out and then burns.
If you need to light fires regularly, get a "Swedish firesteel." This is a steel bar or rod, made from a special alloy that includes magnesium. If you scrape it with another metal tool like the back of a knife blade, it will produce a shower of sparks, even if it is dripping wet because it is raining. Google will file video demos, and suppliers.