You can't POST to nested files, but you can access files within your designated shared directory.
So suppose you have access to home/var/www/
or something like that. and have NO access above www.
You might have your site within a directory on that level, so your site would be at
home/var/www/yoursite
Now, suppose you had a file called config.php in the www folder. Suppose you ALSO have a file called post.php in the yoursite folder.
post.php can easily include config.php:
<?php
include('../config.php');
?>
but obviously you cannot post to config.php because it is above the site's designated directory.
HOWEVER -
I don't think this is news to you. I'm not sure I understand your problem 100% since you seem to know enough to know you can access files with include...
Maybe I just don't get your question. Feel free to clarify any more than you think you already have. Or at least explain why you can't use a basic include